Always look for the bright side!
That’s what I try to tell myself when I’m feeling down about
our fertility treatments. Sometimes it
can feel very isolated when it seems like everyone around you has kids or is
getting pregnant. You tend to feel like
you’re alone in your journey; that no one else gets what you’re going through.
Whenever I start to feel down about something, be it our
infertility or my unemployment or anything at all, I have to make a joke out of
what I’m going through. It’s my defense
mechanism. I’m not a fan of being pitied
so I try to make light of my situations.
For instance, every night I have to give myself injections
in my stomach. These injections will
produce many, many, many eggs which can then be retrieved, fertilized and put
back in, and hopefully grow into a little baby Pal.
The downside of this is that I loathe needles. I wish I
could close my eyes when I do the injections, but then I’d probably stab my
fingers instead! Also, I can’t keep
injecting into the same area because it’ll become too sensitive and I’ll have a
hard time getting the needle in. Because
of this I have to inject a different area around my belly button each night.
So what’s the upside?
Well, the needles cause some slight bruising, and since I have to change
where I do the injections, the result is a smile shape around my belly button.
The bruises make me smile. I can’t help it, if I see someone
else smile, I smile, so I guess if I see a smile shape made of bruises I smile
too! Granted it’s not a full smile, but
it’s enough to make me happy that I have something not everyone else does. Come on, how many people do you know with a
smile around their belly button?
I know the picture is blurry, it's the best one I could take. The bruises are beginning to heal so they are more yellow-ish is this picture. |
Also, as you can see from the picture I’m not exactly a size
2. I often complain to my sister that
I’m tired of the weight I've packed on from being home so much and from all the
hormone injections. I know, I know, it’s
not healthy to have such a poor body image.
The upside of this weight gain is that I have my choice of
belly rolls to grab when I need to do my injections! The way I see it, if I was a size 2 then I wouldn't have any rolls to grab and then I’d probably hate the needles even
more! But, with my added weight, I can
grab a roll with ease and inject away!! And I can smile knowing that I’m adding
building to the smile on my belly!
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